Dats al fine n dandy but problems arise when our emotional investment gets overboard n we realize dat others dun giv bac as muc as we do them.. we get cnfused n hurt, curling up on our beds crying our hearts out, thinkg people dun luv us n dey dun appreciate us.. I used 2 feel e same way, esp in high sch wen al we wantd was 2 b THE MOST POPULAR, MOST AMIABLE GAL in sch.. (oh dun hav 2 point fingers, we noe ourselves ;) ) So I was naive, overly helpful n in turn, 'taken adv of'... So I startd 2 get mad n angry.. thinkg ppl r inconsiderate n hateful.. u noe, e normal teenage rage dat we used 2 xperience.. den e most dreadful cnclusion came 2 my head: If ppl dun cre abt me, y shd i cre abt them?? hel wif them! from now on, I shall do things 4 me n me alone..!" *in a high pitch bimbotic shriekg voice.. :P
blive me, during dat tym, It sounded lyk e wisest decision i hav mde n i was highly proud of myself.. 4rm a dwn-2-earth gal 2 a snobbish pain-in-e-freakshow.. I evn went 2 e xtend of leavg my frens! juz 2 prove my point.. ridiculous isnt it??
same goes wen we r in a relationship.. we put all our emotional 'investment' on dat 1 person, trustg dat 1 person 2 protect n cre 4 us as we do them.. but wen it is not reciprocated, we get mad n angry.. confused n betrayed.. start cursing all guys as losers n bcomes e leader of a feminist grp e nxt day..
here is e thing.. wen we wana help, we cant expect 2 get anything bac.. Its called 'giving' 4 a reason.. Its not an investment wher u give ur time n effort, n expect a return.. its a charity, wher u 'give', then fyl gd dat u actuali took e initiative 2 mke things bettr 4 others... dat way, u wont hav 2 get angry abt others, cos u hav always kip in mind, dat at e end of e day: Its still btween u n God..
ok lovely ppl! i'l b back on tues morning n i'l c u den! Gd luck wif life! ;)

